Podcasts, Instagram feed, Other Support Services & Resources
NATIONAL HELPLINES:
Immediate danger:
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If you or someone else is in immediate danger, please dial 111 for assistance.
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1737, Need to talk? – Free call or text 1737 to talk to a trained counsellor
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Lifeline – 0800 543 354 or (09) 5222 999 within Auckland
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Suicide Crisis Helpline – 0508 828 865 (0508 TAUTOKO)
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Anxiety New Zealand – 0800 ANXIETY (0800 269 4389)
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Healthline – 0800 611 116
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Rural Support Trust – 0800 787 254
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Samaritans – 0800 726 666
Depression-specific helplines:
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Depression Helpline – 0800 111 757 or free text 4202 (to talk to a trained counsellor about how you are feeling or to ask any questions)
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www.depression.org.nz – includes The Journal online help service
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SPARX.org.nz – online e-therapy tool provided by the University of Auckland that helps young people learn skills to deal with feeling down, depressed or stressed
Help for parents, family and friends:
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Plunketline – A toll-free parent helpline and advice service available to all families, whānau and caregivers 24 hours a day, seven days a week. Call 0800 933 922 for parenting help. Calls are free from cell phones.
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Plunket Family Centres – Plunket Family Centres provide a free service, offering practical support and information on different whānau topics: 09 489 9778
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Commonground – a website hub providing parents, family, whānau and friends with access to information, tools and support to help a young person who is struggling
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Parent Help – Helpline for support, advice and help on how best to support your family – 0800 568 856
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Family Services 211 Helpline – 0800 211 211 for help finding (and direct transfer to) community based health and social support services in your area
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Family Start – An intensive home visiting programme, focused on tamariki. The programme works with whānau to improve a child’s health, learning and relationships.
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Birthright – Support for one-parent families – 04 802 5377
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Skylight – 0800 299 100 (for support through trauma, loss and grief; 9am-5pm weekdays)
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Yellow Brick Road - supporting Families In Mental Illness – 0800 732 825 (for families and whānau supporting a loved one who has a mental illness)
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Bellyful – 0508 BELLYFUL (0508 2355938) Free meal service for parents and families.
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Crying Over Spilt Milk – 07 855 9350 – Gastric Reflux Support Network NZ
Multiple specific groups:
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Multiples NZ – A nationwide parent-led support network supporting families in their journey from expecting to raising multiples.
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Dads of Multiples – Facebook Group
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Special Needs Multiples NZ – Facebook Group
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NZ Triplets Plus Club – Supporting parents of triplets or more multiples – 09 416 8885
Sexuality or gender identity helpline:
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OUTLine NZ – 0800 688 5463 (OUTLINE) provides confidential telephone support
Helplines for children and young people:
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Youthline – 0800 376 633, free text 234 or email talk@youthline.co.nz or online chat
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thelowdown.co.nz – or email team@thelowdown.co.nz or free text 5626
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What’s Up – 0800 942 8787 (for 5–18 year olds). Phone counselling is available Monday to Friday, midday–11pm and weekends, 3pm–11pm. Online chat is available 7pm–10pm daily.
Other specialist helplines:
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Alcohol and Drug Helpline – 0800 787 797 or online chat
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Are You OK – 0800 456 450 family violence helpline
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Gambling Helpline – 0800 654 655
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Anxiety phone line – 0800 269 4389 (0800 ANXIETY)
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Seniorline – 0800 725 463 A free information service for older people
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Shine – 0508 744 633 confidential domestic abuse helpline
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Quit Line – 0800 778 778 smoking cessation help
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Vagus Line – 0800 56 76 666 (Mon, Wed, Fri 12 noon – 2pm). Promote family harmony among Chinese, enhance parenting skills, decrease conflict among family members (couple, parent-child, in-laws) and stop family violence
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Women’s Refuge Crisisline – 0800 733 843 (0800 REFUGE) (for women living with violence, or in fear, in their relationship or family)
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Shakti Crisis Line – 0800 742 584 (for migrant or refugee women living with family violence)
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Rape Crisis – 0800 883 300 (for support after rape or sexual assault)
Warmline for consumers of mental health services:
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Free peer support services for people experiencing mental illness or those supporting them
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Auckland Central – 0508 927 654 or 0508 WARMLINE – (8pm to midnight, seven nights)
Podcasts
To get a feel for my style and the way I like to support parents, here are a few, free and accessible podcasts that I have been interviewed on:
Aware Parenting Stories Podcast: Episode 96: Birth Debriefing with Kirsty Fernandes
Aware Parenting Stories Podcast: Episode 44: Trusting the process with Kirsty Fernandes
My Birth Story/Birth Trauma Aotearoa:
Birth trauma support:
https://www.mybirthstory.org.nz/our-story
The Little Miracles Trust:
Supports families of premature or unwell babies:
https://littlemiraclestrust.org.nz/
Books:
Postpartum:
Aware Parenting books by Aletha Solter:
Introducing the concept of a new sibling:
Websites and online articles:
A brief on Mama Honouring Ceremonies, written by my wonderful colleague, Marta Willis:
The essence of Mother Roasting (no ovens involved, I promise!)
The benefits of postpartum care:
The value of the Asian tradition of postpartum lie-ins
The Aware Parenting Institute:
http://www.awareparenting.com/
Great website for sound, research based advice:
Breastfeeding advice and support:
Meal Train: organise meals for a friend after a birth, surgery or illness (or have someone organise it for you!)
SPACE - connect with other Mums post-birth and explore your baby's development in a facilitated environment:
https://www.playcentre.org.nz/whatwedo/space-at-playcentre/
Playcentre - a village for you and your children to grow and PLAY!
Support for Fathers and Father figures:
Nourishing Fathers
https://www.nourishingfathers.com
Apps to download: