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Services - 16 week Aware Parenting Support Circle

You’ve been told that it takes a village to raise a child.

But now the kids are here and the village is not.

Let's create your support circle together.

The 16-Week Aware Parenting Support Circle is here to:

  • Create a community of support both on and offline for parents like you practicing Aware Parenting

  • Provide a deep, safe and connected space for sharing and listening - in this space you can express how parenting really is for you without fear of judgement

  • Provide Aware Parenting guidance, support and suggestions - empowering you to navigate those tricky parenting moments in the short-term and as your child/ren grow

 

What will this support look like?

Weekly Live Sessions (March-June 2026)

16 powerful weeks of alternating deep-dive content sessions and connection circles:

 

8 Content Sessions (1.5 hours each)

  • Rich online gatherings exploring Aware Parenting foundations and practical tools

  • Deep dives into attachment, healing, boundaries, and repair

  • Real stories, scenarios, reflective prompts, and strategies you can implement immediately

8 Connection Sessions (1 hour each)

  • A safe space to share, connect, reflect and ask questions

  • Community building through deep listening

  • Support for what's really showing up in your parenting journey

Every Wednesday at 12pm-1:30pm (content) or 12pm-1pm (connection) NZT

Recordings sent after every session, making sure you don't miss any content or discussion even if you can't make it live

That's 24 hours of live content and support, plus:

  • Access to a private WhatsApp group to ask questions and connect with the other parents in the circle

  • A guide on listening partnerships and the option of forming one within the circle

  • The possibility of connecting with other parents in your region for real-life cuppas

  • 16 weeks of community building, connection, deep listening, practical tools and personalised guidance

 

What topics will we journey through?

  • Week 1: Getting clear on why we're choosing this beautiful, challenging path

  • Week 3: An intro into Aware Parenting and building the foundations for secure attachment

  • Week 5: Our journey as parents - working through our own childhood experiences, listening partnerships and support

  • Week 7: Healing from stress and trauma: inbuilt healing mechanisms, listening to feelings and control patterns

  • Week 9: Democratic discipline: boundaries, loving limits and natural consequences

  • Week 11: Attachment play

  • Week 13: Rupture, repair, trust and healing

  • Week 15: Closing celebration

  • (Weeks 2, 4, 6, 8, 10, 12, 14, and 16 are connection sessions for sharing, reflection, and community support)

 

Program Dates:

  • Start Date: Wednesday, March 11, 2026

  • End Date: Wednesday, June 24, 2026

  • Weekly sessions: Every Wednesday at 12pm NZT

  • Full schedule of all 16 sessions available upon registration.

 

Who is it for?

  • You are caring for a child/ren mainly aged between 0-9 years old

  • Whether you're just dipping your toes into Aware Parenting or you've been at it for years, you're so welcome here

  • You want a sense of community and village-like support around you - a safe space to be authentic and honest about how parenting is for you, challenges arising, things you're unsure about and things you want to celebrate. ALL of you is welcome. There is no right or wrong way to be or feel or parent

  • You want to feel deeply heard, supported and held during your parenting journey

  • You want some practical tools and strategies for tricky parenting moments

  • Aware Parenting is perhaps different from how you were raised and you need support in working through your own childhood experiences or navigating what comes up for you in parenting

Feedback from previous participants:

  • I gained the most from... "Hearing your stories and examples & having a listening partner." "The journaling, the sharing, and the content. Actually everything!" "I enjoyed the practical tools and the opportunity to share."

  • The question support was... "Outstanding. Compassionate and detailed and prompt." "It was incredible Kirsty. So supportive. I felt held the entire time, as I could tend to that space and then felt heard, witnessed and seen."

  • Was it value for money? "Yes. It felt important to me to ask questions in between in order to make the most of the opportunity and your wisdom and get the ongoing support. This felt like a really important part of the whole process for me..." "Yes. I think the sessions were so well prepared, thoughtful, full of heart, and full of really important content...The support in between sessions was priceless."

Why do this with me?​

I'm Kirsty, and I've been walking this path alongside you... I've followed Aware Parenting since my daughter was 9 months old (now almost 9 years old), and practiced it with my son since he was born (now 6 years old). So I know what it's like to be in the trenches with two young children - to want to break patterns and heal intergenerational trauma, to do things differently to everyone around you. I know the pain of knowing better but not always being able to do better because your conditioning is so strong. I know the juggle of parenting, homeschooling, work, extended family - and the longing for more support. I'm right here with you! 


I've been supporting parents through postpartum education, birth debriefing and Aware Parenting for the past 6 years - working with couples, solo parents, Mothers, Fathers, and even Nanas! I also have a background in Learning and Development, so the content is designed with intention and for maximum impact. But more than that - I've lived this, I'm still living this, and I'm here to walk beside you with deep understanding and practical support.

Investment in your Parenting Journey

  • Individual Journey (solo sign-up): NZD $699 upfront or 4 payments of $182 

Want to check out if it's right for you? Book a free 15 minute chat with me to see if we're a match

If you'd like to register and save your spot, access the payment plan or learn more, please send me an email.

Early Bird Special

  • Register before February 15, 2026, and receive a complementary half hour listening session with me.

  • Registrations close on March 4, 2026.

  • Limited spaces available. 

Why This Format?

This 16-week delivers:

  • ✨ Faster momentum - weekly rhythm keeps the learning and connection flowing

  • ✨ Deeper integration - alternating content and connection gives you time to practice and share

  • ✨ Get the tools faster - finish in June with your full toolkit ready

 

You are doing the most important work in the world - raising the next generation. And you deserve all the support in doing so. This isn't just another thing to add to your to-do list - it's creating your village, your safe space, your community of like-minded people. Whether things feel mostly okay or completely overwhelming right now, you are worthy of support. Full stop. Together, we can navigate this parenting journey with more tools, more understanding, and way more support than going it alone.

Feedback from previous participants:

​I gained the most from...

"Hearing your stories and examples & having a listening partner."

"The journaling, the sharing, and the content. Actually everything!"

"I enjoyed the practical tools and the opportunity to share."

The question support was...

"Outstanding. Compassionate and detailed and prompt."

"It was incredible Kirsty. So supportive. I felt held the entire time, as I could tend to that space and then felt heard, witnessed and seen."

Was it value for money?

"Yes. It felt important to me to ask questions in between in order to make the most of the opportunity and your wisdom and get the ongoing support. This felt like a really important part of the whole process for me..."

"Yes. I think the sessions were so well prepared, thoughtful, full of heart, and full of really important content...The support in between sessions was priceless."

© 2019 by Kirsty Fernandes

Kirsty Fernandes Honouring Mama

Online & in Aotearoa, New Zealand

Tel: +64 27 405 3108

"The most profound thing we have to offer our children is our own healing." - Anne Lamott

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