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Birth Debriefing, Postpartum Care and Parenting Support

Kia ora! Hello! 

My name is Kirsty Fernandes and I'm so glad that you're here! 

You can learn more about me here.

In the meantime, take a look around and let me know if you feel called to be supported by me in your pregnancy, postpartum, birth debriefing or parenting journey.

Do you want to feel honoured and seen for all that you are and have gone through as a Māmā?​


Our fertility, pregnancy and birth journeys are some of the biggest events in our lives - it requires us to be open, vulnerable and raw.  

I will hold space for you to feel supported, seen and heard as you navigate this huge transition and rite of passage.

I offer:

Whether you are a first time or seasoned Māmā, became a Māmā 2 days ago or 25 years ago, or you have a woman in your life that you would like to honour, I am here for you.

Please click on the relevant link below to learn more about the services that I provide online, in the Nelson-Tasman region and on request, in other locations around New Zealand.

Do you want to create more connection and cooperation in your family?

Beyond birth, parenting is a journey which can be full of wonder and magic and also relentless and overwhelming. 


Please get in touch if you would like support to:

  • Navigate big changes like a new sibling, moving house, or a change in family dynamics

  • Help your child to express emotions in a healthy way 

  • Manage sibling rivalry or conflict with effective tools

  • Encourage your children to sleep more peacefully without sleep training

  • Gain cooperation willingly without the use of rewards and punishments (non punitive or democratic discipline)

  • Help your children heal from stress and trauma and

  • Foster a strong connection with yourself, your children and within your family

  • Balance the needs of everyone in the family (yes, including yours!)

There is an equal balance of attention on you - your needs, your story and your healing. To have your feelings heard and held and be met with deep compassion and understanding. 

Please click on the link below if you would like to hear more about these parenting approaches and online and in person support services that I provide to individuals, whānau (family) and organisations. 

"So much can be said for Kirsty and her amazing work. From the warm and calming presence she brings into your bubble to the personal touches she adds to whatever service she is giving; she is, in two words, soul repairing. I'm a very reserved and private person so I was very nervous before she turned up for my "Honouring Mamas" ceremony, however that flew out the door as I opened it to greet her into my home. She has a warm presence about her that allowed me to let my walls down and open up about my birthing story. Through her and her work I gained healing and strength. I was in emotional distress when she arrived (from my birth) to completely free and the weight lifted when she left. I encourage any Māmā to reach out to Kirsty, if not for healing then just for pampering because once she's finished with you you'll feel like a Queen! My partner also sat through the ceremony with me and shared his experience with her and he too gained so much from having her in our home. We thankyou from the bottom of our hearts Kirsty." - Kura, wonderful first time Māmā
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